Managing situations involving cruelty and neglect

Whether you need practical strategies, tailored advice, or insights into preventing harm, we’re here to support you in helping young people and animals thrive.

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Reflective resources

Opening conversations about animal harm

These resources are designed to help families and professionals support young people who may be at risk of, or have already harmed, animals. Each activity encourages open conversation, reflection, and critical thinking, providing a structured first step towards understanding and addressing their actions. For further support, please reach out to us at interventions@rspca.org.uk.

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Conversation starter dice

This activity is a fun and easy way to get talking with young people! By rolling the dice and answering the questions, you’ll have a chance to learn more about their thoughts on animals while sparking some interesting conversations.
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Thinking time

This activity is a great way to help young people reflect on past events and the choices they made. You’ll guide them to think about what happened, why it happened, and what could have been done differently.

Consequences

This activity helps young people understand the consequences of breaking the Wildlife and Countryside Act 1981 and the Animal Welfare Act 2006. It encourages them to think about how their actions and attitudes towards animals can have an impact.

Reasons why people cause neglect and cruelty

Through research and experience, we’ve gained valuable insights into the many reasons why young people may show neglect or cruelty towards animals. By recognising these factors, we can work together to guide them towards empathy, responsibility, and positive change. The main reasons for cruelty and neglect are:

  • Victims of crime and substance misuse.
  • Curiosity and learned behaviour.
  • Peer pressure and carelessness.
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First aid strategies

Creating a safe, happy environment for pets and young people is key to reducing the risks of neglect or unintentional cruelty. Here are some practical tips to build a positive bond with pets:

Ensure safety before building trust

Always keep both the young person and the animal safe by maintaining a clear separation. Supervise all future interactions carefully and seek further guidance on how to rebuild a positive and respectful relationship between them.

Set Clear Boundaries

Before bringing a pet into your home, or if you already have one, discuss the do’s and don’ts with the family. Simple rules like leaving pets alone when they’re eating or sleeping help everyone stay safe and happy.

Introduce Responsibility Gradually

While children may be excited about having a pet, caring for an animal is a big responsibility. Legally, those under 16 can’t be solely responsible for a pet, but you can involve them in age-appropriate tasks like feeding or grooming - with supervision.

Give Pets a Safe Space

Just like us, animals can feel overwhelmed. Make sure your pet has a quiet, secure place to retreat to when they need time alone. Respecting their personal space helps build trust.

Respect Personal Space

Hugging is one way people show love, but many pets find it uncomfortable or even scary. Instead, encourage other ways to bond, like playtime or enrichment activities that your pet will enjoy and appreciate.

Address Jealousy

Sometimes children may feel left out when pets get attention from their primary carer. Talk to them about the pet’s needs and find ways to help them build a positive relationship, like learning fun tricks or helping with care routines.

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Our interventions team is here to provide guidance and resources for educators, social workers, and anyone working with young people. Whether you’re facing a specific situation or just have a question, we’re here to support you.

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