Choosing the right pet for your family

Every family is different, and every animal has their own personality and needs. Thinking about your home and routine can help you choose a pet who will feel safe, settled and truly part of the family.

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The myths about breeds

There’s no one-size-fits-all family pet. For example, you might hear about the best dog breeds for families or good family dog breeds, but breed alone can’t tell you whether a pet will be right for your home. Every dog, cat, rabbit and small pet has their own personality, history, confidence levels and care needs.

Some breeds may be known for certain traits, but individual animals can still vary a lot. A calm older dog may suit one family better than a lively puppy. A confident cat may enjoy a busy household, while another may need a quieter home. That’s why it’s important to look beyond breed labels and consider each animal’s personality, behaviour and day-to-day care.

Our teams assess animals as individuals and help match them with homes where their needs can be met.

Which pets are good for families?

There’s no single ‘best pet’ for every family. Before you choose, learn what different types of animals may need to feel comfortable in your home.

Dogs for families

Dogs can be wonderful family companions, but they need time, training, exercise and careful supervision around children. Rather than looking for the best dog breed for a family, think about the dog’s age, temperament, energy levels, confidence and previous experience.

Some dogs may enjoy family life, while others may find young children, noise or busy routines overwhelming. Children should always be taught how to behave safely and kindly around dogs, and adults should always be present to supervise their interactions. Our advice on introducing dogs and children can help everyone feel safer and more confident.

If you’re adopting, our teams will help you understand whether a particular dog could suit your family.

An older couple sitting on wooden steps laughing together while a bulldog rests his head on the man's lap.
An Olde Tyme Bulldog named Bruce with his new family.

Cats for families

Cats can be affectionate and playful, but they also need space and the ability to move away when they want to. Some cats may enjoy living with children, while others may prefer a quieter home.

If you’re considering a cat for your family, think about your children’s ages, how busy your home is, and whether the cat will have safe places to hide, rest and observe. Teaching children to recognise cat body language can help everyone feel more relaxed and prevent stress for the cat.

If you’re adopting, our teams will help you understand whether a particular dog could suit your family.

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A black and white cat named Peter in his new home.

Rabbits for families

Rabbits are intelligent, social animals with specific welfare needs. They need companionship, space to move freely, suitable housing, enrichment and gentle handling. They’re often not the best choice for very young children who want a pet they can pick up and cuddle.

If your family is considering rabbits, think about whether you can provide the right setup and daily care. All rabbits should be adopted in bonded pairs (unless you already have a rabbit in need of a companion), so make sure you’re ready to commit to two rabbits rather than one. Read our rabbit advice, which includes a care guide covering suitable environments, enrichment and diet, to understand what they need before you choose.

A young boy lying on the ground feeding a black rabbit from his hand.
A child hand feeding Sherbet the black rabbit.

Small pets for families

Small pets can be fascinating animals to care for, but they shouldn’t be seen as ‘easy starter pets’. Guinea pigs, hamsters, rats, mice, gerbils, degus, chinchillas and ferrets all have different needs around housing, diet, handling, enrichment and companionship.

Some small pets are delicate, nocturnal or easily stressed by noise and handling. Before choosing one for a child, think about whether the animal’s natural behaviour fits your family routine and whether an adult can take responsibility for their daily care. Read our advice on hamsters, guinea pigs, rodents, ferrets and exotic pets to understand their specific needs before you choose.

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A boy holding his pet rat, Nettle on his lap.

Further resources

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Why adopt instead of buy 

Explore the benefits of adopting a pet and how rehoming helps animals in need find loving homes.
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Allergy friendly pets

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Pet cost calculator

Use our calculator to understand some of the everyday and long-term costs of caring for a dog or cat.